You in your 20s, still trying to figure yourself out, and caring way too much what people think, here is when that finally changes.

In your teens and 20s, most of your decisions are filtered through other people.
What will they think, how will this look, does this fit who I am supposed to be.

You are not just building a life.
You are building an identity in front of an audience.

Then something shifts.

You get older, you go through more, and you realize something simple.
Most people are too busy thinking about themselves to think about you.

That is when it clicks.

You stop performing.
You stop asking for permission.
You just do what you want to do.

That is when you know you have grown up.

At what age did you stop caring what people think?